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You have the power to help me bring to life a project that was inspired by peoples’ anxiety, happiness, self-loathing and hope.

The Art of Crying in the Bathroom: A book about things we don’t say

by Alma Feka

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  •  700.00

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THE PROJECT

 

“The Art of Crying in the Bathroom” includes a cozy collection of poems, written based on a variety of peoples’ experiences with life. They portray different topics, perspectives, feelings, dreams, and fears.

 

You might think that compared to other projects, this is like a small pebble in a vast sea. 

 

I agree, it does seem that way, but

feelings are not a small matter I say.

 

Did you know that you can die of a broken heart? It’s scientifically true. It’s called Tokotsubo cardiomyopathy, otherwise known as “Broken Heart Syndrome”.

And a heart can be broken in many ways, whether it be through losing a loved one, failing at something you worked really hard for, being mistreated and depreciated by the people around you, etc.

So if this book will help someone get out of their bed and give life a second chance, share their thoughts and feelings with others, or just have a good cry in their bathroom, it will have fulfilled its purpose.

What primarily fueled my desire to create “The Art of Crying in the Bathroom” was so others would be able to read something they can find comfort, support, or relatability in. And potentially reread it when they need a reminder. 

 

It is what it is, honest feelings expressed through wordplay. 

It’s reassuring when a complete stranger is going through the same hardship as you, right? 

Makes you understand that you’re not alone.

 

My project has been a work in progress since longer ago, but I waited to take this step until I gathered enough material and maturity to convey the message in a way that would do justice to the people it was inspired by. 

Some of the poems came to be as a result of strangers talking on the bus, others from my closest circle, some came from toddlers and children, others from the elderly or people on their death bed. 

The writing I used is like the humans it was inspired by, wavering and ever changing, big and small, sometimes raw and direct, at other times laden with metaphors and dancing around the topic.

 

THE SPECIFICS

 

– Structure: 2 chapters, 50 poems

– Language: English

– Art: Illustrations for each poem, drawn by me 

– Font: Open Dyslexic

– Format: 11 x 18cm

– Pages: 80 + 4

– Inside of the book: 1 color

– Paper: Samua vellum, 80gr

– Cover: Matte + UV varnish, 300gr

 

An example of my illustrations, drawn with a Wacom Intuos4 Tablet on the drawing program Sketch

and the book cover mockup template (original design):

 

     

 

THE BUDGET

 

1) Printing & Publishing 1.45€ x 330 pieces = € 478,50

2) Transport and additional fees € 96,50

3) Acquiring ISBN code € 125,00

4) Additional design services € 200,00

5) 10% Creditcard-, banktransfer-  and KOSOVA ideas Platform Fees € 100,00

Total € 1 000,00

Name Date Comments
Dorothea Fankhauser October 23, 2019 whish you a lot of young readers for your interesting Boock
Visar Jasiqi October 23, 2019 Keep up the good work. Would love to read it. 
Fondacioni UNE October 23, 2019 A great project. It would be very gratifying if friends and family would be more encouraging. 
a Basel Foundation October 23, 2019 - - -
Anonymous October 23, 2019 That's a good start!
Food Lover October 23, 2019 Had the pleasure of reading one of the poems not only it helped me feel understood but also I am not alone. Often we don't know how to put into words how we feel or are too scared to do so, when people have the talent to write it so beautifully it does make the world a better place. Thank you Alma for doing this, million times thank you.
Georg Fankhauser October 23, 2019 I feel, you must do this, it is vital and at the same time artistically and intellectually convincing. Looking forward to read the texts as they will be in English. All the best.
Anonymous October 23, 2019 Looking forward to it!
Lumbardh Zagragja October 23, 2019 That's a great start. Good luck and looking forward to see the end product.
Jeta Zagragja October 23, 2019 You rock cike! Good luck!
Anonymous October 23, 2019 Nice idea. Keep going.
Yll ZAGRAGJA October 23, 2019 Cant wait to read it. 
Anonymous October 23, 2019 Wish you the best of luck! 
Anonymous October 23, 2019 As someone who loves writing, wish you good luck with your campaign!